Logo
  • Books
  • Resources
  • About
Get Started

Articles-db

How We End Things MattersHow We End Things Matters
How We End Things Matters

Endings, when met with presence, have the power to deepen connection, bring clarity, and allow us to move forward with grace…rather than emotional residue.

December 12, 2025
What kind of relationships are you having at work? 
What kind of relationships are you having at work?
What kind of relationships are you having at work?

Work relationships can get tangled when we unconsciously play out other roles. This article invites reflection on how clarity, trust, and ease return when we recognise the relationship we’re actually in.

November 21, 2025
The Power of RepairThe Power of Repair
The Power of Repair

Repair is the often-overlooked skill of reconnecting after rupture; a courageous act of willingness that can restore clarity, trust, and deeper relationship when someone chooses to go first.

October 17, 2025
Leaders need supervision tooLeaders need supervision too
Leaders need supervision too

Leadership isn’t just about being out in front. Sometimes it’s about knowing when to sit beside someone who’s walked before you.

October 3, 2025
The Leadership LeapThe Leadership Leap
The Leadership Leap

Leadership, just like everything else, is up for renewal. This article explores three important characteristics aspiring leaders should hone.

September 18, 2025
What emotional intelligence makes possible for teams What emotional intelligence makes possible for teams
What emotional intelligence makes possible for teams

Emotional intelligence isn’t just an individual trait, it’s a shared dynamic that shapes how teams function. When it’s present, trust builds and collaboration flows; when it’s absent, the whole system tightens and the work becomes harder.

September 5, 2025
The thing you’re hiding might be the thing that connects youThe thing you’re hiding might be the thing that connects you
The thing you’re hiding might be the thing that connects you

Guardedness isn’t fixed, it’s a protective response born from past hurt, that with the right conditions, can soften into connection and belonging.

August 22, 2025
Leadership in the Age of AILeadership in the Age of AI
Leadership in the Age of AI

Perspectives on why we need to lean into the feeling parts of leadership, to remain relevant in the Age of AI.

August 7, 2025
Respect isn’t a rule, it’s a relationship.
Respect isn’t a rule, it’s a relationship.

When leaders talk about what they expect from their team, “respect” is almost always at the top of the list. But what does it actually mean? And where does it really come from?

July 23, 2025
The hard truth about soft skillsThe hard truth about soft skills
The hard truth about soft skills

Soft skills aren’t optional extras, they’re essential human abilities that hold our work, our teams, and our leadership together, especially in an unpredictable, AI-driven world.

July 11, 2025
Our heart is not just a pumpOur heart is not just a pump
Our heart is not just a pump

An exploration of the heart as a critical sensing organ for leadership, not just a mechanical pump that keeps us ticking.

June 29, 2025
Wholeness, Not PerfectionWholeness, Not Perfection
Wholeness, Not Perfection

This articles explores the power of embracing wholeness over perfection in leadership. Melis shares her continuing observations of how nature organises itself and how it relates to deep leadership.

June 13, 2025
The Ecology of LeadershipThe Ecology of Leadership
The Ecology of Leadership

This article reimagines leadership through nature's lens, shifting from control to creating conditions. Like a gardener tending soil, effective leaders foster environments where teams naturally thrive and innovate.

May 28, 2025
Life knows more is not betterLife knows more is not better
Life knows more is not better

This article invites us to rethink leadership growth through the lens of living systems—shifting from scale and speed, to rhythm, relationship, and regenerative intelligence.

May 1, 2025
What’s your life script?What’s your life script?
What’s your life script?

An article about the deep, core narratives that drive much of our behaviour. Learn what your life script might be and how to write a new one.

April 28, 2025
Stillness in MotionStillness in Motion
Stillness in Motion

In this article we discuss the role of embodied presence in leadership. What it is, why it’s good and how to achieve it.

April 16, 2025
Regulating the Self, Leading the SystemRegulating the Self, Leading the System
Regulating the Self, Leading the System

An article that explores the role of nervous system awareness in effective leadership.

April 8, 2025
Leading from the inside outLeading from the inside out
Leading from the inside out

This article explores how somatic intelligence - the body's innate wisdom - is crucial for authentic and effective leadership, emphasising that true leadership comes not just from cognitive abilities but from a deep connection with one's physical responses and presence.

April 1, 2025
How to lead design, now.How to lead design, now.
How to lead design, now.

What all leaders of design teams or design-led businesses need to be thinking about with the exponential uptake of AI in business.

July 5, 2023
Trust me, I got you.Trust me, I got you.
Trust me, I got you.

Learn the five steps to building trust in any relationship, including being consistent, telling the truth, setting clear boundaries, communicating clearly, and showing vulnerability.

March 10, 2023
Integrating Your Whole SelfIntegrating Your Whole Self
Integrating Your Whole Self

The idea people can separate themselves from their work is a myth. This article provides guidance on how to be whole and feel safe at the same time.

February 8, 2023
TransitionsTransitions
Transitions

Lessons from working with people navigating transition. I share my tips on moving through change with as much grace as you can muster.

January 19, 2023
Article template
Article template
Logo

Books

This Human Book

Design Character Book (new)

Buy the Books

Resources

Articles

Clarity & Confidence workbook

Community

References and Downloads

Privacy

Terms

© 2026 This Human | ABN: 50 871 558 964

LinkedInInstagramXSpotify